Let me tell you that the realization of Self is possible for all, without any exception.
(p.256, The Gospel of Sri Ramakrishna)
The world for me, not I for the world. Good and evil are our slaves, not we theirs. It is the nature of the brute to remain where he is ; it is the nature of man to seek good and avoid evil; it is the nature of God to seek neither, but just to be eternally blissful. Let us be God. Make the heart like an ocean, go beyond all the trifles of the world, be mad with joy even at evil; see the world as a picture and then enjoy its beauty, knowing that nothing affects you. Children finding glass beads in a mud puddle, that is the good of the world. Look at it with calm complacency; see good and evil as the same — both are merely ‘God’s play’; enjoy all.
(p.13, I V.7, Complete Works of Swami Vivekananda, Inspired Talks)